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“Great minds discuss ideas.
Average minds discuss events.
Small minds discuss people.”
I saw this quote and immediately thought
of a situation at work with a co-worker.
He's become fixated on a situation that I
think he made up in his mind. He likes to
grow tomatoes and make home made salsa -
always a good thing in the southwest! -
but for some reason his plants all died.
He's convinced that it was the result of
two co-workers who colluded and found out
where he lives, climbed over his balcony wall
and purposely killed his tomato plants.
But he didn't let it go there; he has turned it
into a police matter. The two he points a
finger at aren't related or even friendly enough
in my book to have done something like that.
One is male, one is female.
I say forget the tomatoes, start over after the
heat of summer, and let it go. But he's the kind
who doesn't let go of things, even things that
happened more than five years ago.
Sorry. Odd little story to add here, totally not
related to anything much, other than I have to
work with this person on a daily basis, and
sometimes it affects me greatly to hear the

stories, accusations, implications of what may
result from this. I fear it will cause the two
co-workers to transfer out of the store.
Some days I come home exhausted just from
the telling and retelling. I've even resorted to
putting in an earplug - and when I can get away
with it, listening to my mp3 player!
Sometimes the drama of other peoples' lives
leach over into our own, even when we don't
want for it to happen. Maybe I should tack
this sign up on my wall at work. hehehehehe